Finding ways to express your care is difficult, I know it is for me. A quick text or email doesn't quite cut it when trying to express how you feel about someone.
However, I have found that letters are the best way to show appreciation and to capture those feelings. There is something about a physical letter that shows appreciation and care. It allows you to customize a message that can be read back upon constantly and remembered.
I know this because I constantly revisit letters that I have received before. I know how meaningful they are and I am able to replicate that same feeling when sending others letters.
Instead of going to the drug store across town, try making your own letter. By doing so you are able to put more meaning and thought behind that words that you write. Don't worry if you have never done so, here I will help guide you on how to make a meaningful letter for someone that you care about.
Who are You Writing
The first thing that you should have in mind is who you are writing and what your relationship is like. Think of why you want to write them and what you want them to know at that moment.
Remember to keep their interests in mind. What do they like? What makes them happy? What are their hobbies? This shows that you care and listen to other person and are interested in their life. Also keep in mind the memories that you share with that person as well. Looking back on those memories can help inspire a what you want to make and write.
Don't think that the person you are writing has to be someone you are extremely close. Relationships are often improved and strengthened through writing letters. Writing a letter can help you connect with someone that you might have not seen for a while or an old friend that you would like to check in on.
By creating something that you know sparks joy in their life, you are able to make a memorable and cherished letter.
Start Writing
There is no format when writing a letter towards someone, so feel free to write exactly how to feel and what you want to express.
Get out a piece of paper and pen and just start writing what you are feeling in the moment and what you want to express to the individual.
This shows real human emotions and the person who is receiving the letter can feel like they are actually talking to you. There is no right or wrong way to express your appreciation
towards others.
Keep in mind their feelings as you write. Comment about any updates in their life or special occasions coming up. Write to them as if you were talking to them in person. Personalize your message to them.
Also tell them about your life. Share information with them that is valuable towards your relationship.
The great thing about writing a letter is that you can always revise it or re-write it before sending it. Take your time and finalize your thoughts to the person. Send your best feelings.
If you are looking for a format to writing a letter because this writing style isn't appropriate, Grammarly as provided a step-by-step tutorial of how to format a formal letter.
Get Inspired and Create
The most challenging thing about making a letter is customizing it towards the person. You don't just want to send lined paper in a white envelope. Find ways to add your own custom touch to the letter.
Pinterest is a great way to find inspiration. There are simple DIY tutorials to follow, aesthetics
to choice from, or printable content. Don't let other's work daunt you because of your artistic skill. Allow yourself to be creative through the process.
Your letter doesn't need to be something you would see in the Louvre, it simply can be personalized in the simplest ways. After finding inspiration, implement that on to your letter. For example, my friend that I write is wanting to become a pilot. When I write him letters I often will add a simple doodle of a paper airplane on the front of the envelope. Or if I am feeling extra crafty, I will embroider it on the letter. By adding that simple touch, he finds the letters more valuable and meaningful.
I have found that adding personalized touches to letters shows more meaning and effort behind a letter. Making a letter from scratch or adding details to a pre-made letter helps customize it towards the individual that you are writing.
The great thing about making and writing your own letter is that it means you took the time out of your day to share something with someone that you care about. That is what makes a letter meaningful.
Taking time to reflect on the person and to write your thoughts towards them will create a more meaningful relationship. You are able to be separated from one another, but yet create memories.
By taking time to think about someone and to express that will bring much appreciation towards the person that you are writing. Be creative with your letters and enjoy it. Who ever you send it to, will appreciate it no matter what.
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